I would really like this effort not to die, so I've given the proposal another push. Following the comments from Simon and Joachim, I've re-framed the proposal as laying down a process to create new "language versions" yearly. The idea is to have one of these every year (or 2, or 3, whatever is decided), coinciding with the spring release of GHC.
https://github.com/serras/ghc-proposals/blob/ghc-2020/proposals/0000-ghc-2020.md
I think it's important for the community to be involved in the process. If it's clear that an extension is loved by most of the community, that's a big plus for acceptance. In addition, if we come with a list ourselves, we risk having made choices which only show our (biased) point of view.
Since in the first round the possible list of extensions may be quite big, we might introduce a "fast-lane process" for this one time, for extensions like EmptyDataDecls or different number formats which seem to have unanimous support.
Looking forward to hearing from all of you,
Alejandro