I do use the data Ex = forall a. ... syntax occasionally, but only when I'm emphasizing that I'm not building a GADT. I would entertain the thought of removing it. Yet, I don't think we can do so as part of this process, as we don't have a combination of extensions that allows GADT-syntax existentials but not this other syntax. (Even -XGADTs -XNoExistentialQuantification doesn't eliminate it.)
In any case, I've voted against GADTs, and so if you want to disentangle this one piece of syntax, that would also be a vote against GADTs, followed up with a proposal to spin out this syntax into its own extension.