I see the problem now Sean. So in your example, is this correct:
"To use the machinery of 'Show', I have to add and instance Show T. But that would be an orphan instance. So there is no way for T to use show machinery without adding an orphan instance (aside from modifying a module not under your control)?"
Even newtype doesn't seem to help in your example. Show has all this machinery, but it seems completely unusable without adding an orphan instance or re-writing other people's modules. Is there no other way? This situation seems incredibly against re-usability, which I thought was Haskell's strength. Am I missing something?